I keep hearing about the return of the divine feminine. That our collective consciousness has spent too much time in the masculine paradigm… That every mechanism of our self destructive society must change, needs change, and will change. We will come to see beauty and nature and the gentle, strong, empowered, loving divine feminine come alive again. Well that sounds good to me! But damn, are we ready? Maybe that’s what is needed, but don’t we actually need to change? From what I have learned in life, it’s much more about action. Yes, believe the shit out of your hopes, visualize the manifestation, but Also do, act on those sights, those goals…progress takes movement.
For too long, the women, the oppressed, the ʺotherʺ has sought to fight back, to rage war against those who have oppressed, or even just those who resided on the privileged side of matters.
To me, this directly relates to the Girls of the feminist movement. I’ve met plenty of women who claim to be feminists, but I’m talking about the girls who violently display their hurt, frustrations, and anger to all who merely flash a display of ʺsuperiorityʺ over the female entity.
In reality, the masculine not only treat women as less, but each other as this! Blacks not only have resentment for whites, but each other! Boys do so many hurtful and dis empowering things to each other all the time, and continue to do so until awakened and conscious. We act childish and hurtful to ourselves. What I mean here, is that all these divided, singular ʺmovementsʺ really are hypocritical and weightless, for they are making the situation in the world worse! These issues are not for women, blacks, Asians, Latinas, LGBTIQ, or any other silly group that says ‘their’ issues are most important! ‘Their’ issues are everyone’s issue, and by denying that, they are feeding into the oppressive system. Yes, be oh so proud of your heritage, where you ʺcomeʺ from, sure, celebrate! But if you believe that that is really who you are, then you aren’t much….sorry to be blunt, but we are much more than our identity. We are unique and beautiful spirits of the universe, whose thoughts, words, and actions, can literally change the world and our reality in unbelievably powerful ways. So why continue to focus on what is wrong, so much so that we focus on the minute details that lead us down rabbit holes of mindless critique of being approached on the street. Lets go down that rabbit hole for just one second. I wonder if those Girls who get angry at a man complimenting their smile on the street ever stop being a selfish ʺvictimʺ and realize how much power they can have in this sort of situation? First, um hell yes, that man was actually focused on something more than your ass. He looked at one of the more important portals of you body and took appreciation in the divine beauty you hold. What about the more ʺdoucheyʺ dudes who comment on your sexiness. Yes, maybe he wants to fuck, and defiantly is not respecting you the way you want, so leave! Ignore and keep walking. Be the stronger human and don’t let his insecurities and unconscious actions get in the way of you being a beautiful and strong woman who can’t be fucked with! No need to get defensive and be a bitch back, but if you feel the desire, go ahead, put him in his place, but think about what actually might be the most effective thing to say, just saying ʺfuck off, scumbagʺ is about as selfish and disturbed as he is. We are really all in this together, so why not express a moment of truth. Let him know you respect yourself and your body too much to let him talk like that about you or to you, and that he should too… In whatever way makes sense to you, but be a Woman and add that real sexy powerful grace that the Divine feminine oozes out of her soul. My friends and I used to make a joke out of it, making putrid faces and foul noises, dancing absolutely ridiculous when someone tried to grab you from behind at a club. Not exactly graceful, but we were learning and at that point it made sence for us to reflect the absurdity back onto the perpetrator. Don’t let it get to you! These issues are completely minute on the scale of what we deal with. Feminists, to me, only make sence to work for equal pay and opportunity, right now! Women who work hard, use their mind, and are driven deserve equal to anyone else that does the same, but in reality the masculine essence of society throughout the world doesn’t just hurt women.
Every ʺotherʺ or revolutionary group is faulty in the same ways. Civil rights are pointless child’s play in comparison to human rights. Our system is faulty in the way it treats humans bad, our society is corrupted in how we compete and bring down each other relentlessly, our relationships are fuckery in the selfish brain dead way we treat the people that should and do matter to us.
Ever heard of divide and conquer, yeah that’s what is going on, we have helped the system make sure the gays the blacks, the women, etc. never get anywhere! We have divided so thoroughly to the point of irrelevant detail. To me, I see the same patterns in modern science. Scientists have divided into the smallest sectors and issues possible, so that they don’t even speak the same language! Only of late have some disciplines worked to create new connections in their fields to look at issues on a little bigger of a picture. To make larger hypothesis, system wide ideas and solutions, to actually make a difference in the world. Not just study one function of one protein in one organ in the body of mice and decided to ʺfixʺ it and hope it does the same thing in humans….
I have once believed I was a feminist, believed so strongly in women’s rights, wanted to ʺfight backʺ at my ʺoppressorsʺ but thankfully I saw this necessary lesson and moved forward. The actions of most feminists are too crude, too selfish, and really too masculine. I hope all women see the injustice we deal with, and feel that hurt, move on and most importantly keep growing. We have much bigger fish to fry baby girl, now lets be women.
Grow up and visualize that Divine Feminine within ourselves and in each other. Support each other and humanity as a whole, have grace and forgiveness, not just for them, but for your ability to Move On. So that you can move forward to the next lesson/ journey in this blessed life we were givin.
I deeply appreciate this blog and all the beautiful spirits who contribute. Lets provide the open space for each other and for the many other oppressed spirits in the world. Stop victimizing yourselves and take strength in your dance through life. Lets provide the space, the example, the opportunity for the Divine Feminine to return in every ounce of our weakened world. 2014 looks to be a rough one on many large issues, so don’t get caught up in those roles. Breath, Be, Beautiful. ❤
*The picture. A friend, Scott Kelly at Luminous fibers Design made it and it is called Venus
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